Perfection

Me:      oye do you believe in the quarter life crisis thing?
Her:     yup, to some extent yes

aren’t there so many changes in life

that’s the prime time of life

Me:      but the fact that your ideologies go for a toss and sometimes u fall short of reason

for things u believed in ardently

you tend to think people have changed - but keep questioning - is it u or is it them..

Her:     sometimes... inevitable changes.. and no explanations and no reasons
Me:      you think I have changed? as a person u knew in college?
Her:     yes lot more grown up

Yup definitely yes

More mature

Me:      = old?
Her:     more stable with thoughts...

 No not old.... always young at heart

Me:      hmm. Honestly - I would trade maturity and stability for college life any day...but would it be as fruitful as these days are?...I don’t think so.

Her:     neither me... that's d trade off between college life and life after that
Me:      knowing that I can now make my own contribution to everything is different high

Yes... now I don’t just have opinions, I have experience to go with it

Her:     Actually every phase has its own importance in life, but we never believe it and when we look back.... there so many sweet memories, and we wish back to go to that phase...

Me:      we like to live in the past or the future... present just doesn't seem good enough
Her:     exactly, totally agree. Isn't it the human instinct - always wishing for something else?
Me:      But perfection isn’t that demanding. It's just acceptance.
Her:     acceptance of?

Me:      Acceptance of imperfections. Living with them, making the best of them - that's perfection. It is said if you add a drop of Ganga's water to a glass of tap water the whole glass becomes pure. Same is the case of perfection... You don't demand the water to be pure u make it pure by your presence.

Her:     words of wisdom!
Me:      wow. By the way, wow = words of wisdom
Her:     wow!

The idea is definitely good - it is exactly what I needed

Somehow u know everything, u just need a little help in reminding it to yourself?

Her:     hmmmm. ramayan se yaad aya- " hanuman ji too need to reminded of his powers
Me:      kab? when he wanted to cross ??
Her:     I don’t remember exactly.. perhaps yes
Me:      hmm. reminders.